How attractive a man is is proportional to his True Confidence, simply, being less invested in other people’s perceptions of you than in your perception of yourself. On the other hand, being physically assertive and sexually forthright triggers a woman’s sexual arousal and makes her want to have sex, often right then and there, and often even if she rejects your advances two or three or ten times.” It’s a psychological, long-term, identity-level attraction.
Status attracts women, but by itself, it only attracts them in a way that they want to be your girlfriend, not jump your bones. “It’s important to relate this back to the original dichotomy of female attraction and arousal mentioned earlier in the chapter. Bold and aggressive pursuit can turn a woman on to the point where she comes around and wants to get to know you. This is why the more physical assertiveness you pursue a woman with, the more aroused she becomes, even if she wasn’t interested in you to begin with. You don’t have to be rich and famous to be attractive, but you should display the qualities that show you have potential to be rich and famous, which is indicated by your social status and behavior, which is indicated by how you behave around others, how others behave around you, and how you treat yourself.īoth men and women are aroused by being desired, but since female arousal is more psychological than male arousal, the sense of “being desired” is even stronger in determining a woman being attracted to a man.
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